5 Exciting Things for Autumn in New England!

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5 Exciting Things for Autumn in New England!

  1. All the Senses Engaged – You know that smell…. Crisp. Clean. Cool. What we used to call “sweater weather.” And envision those colors – hues of vibrancy that only an Artist like God could create and splash on leaves of all shapes and sizes. The taste of pumpkin everything! I want to start my days on the screen porch, breathing in deeply and exhaling love all around me. You too?
  2. Words, Words, and More Words – Every single open door for speaking Encouraging Words is a pure joy for me to walk through. I am excited to see many of you at a variety of events this Fall; including a coffee shop, family camp, girlfriend weekend conference, mama gatherings, writing retreat, and book club (click on below photo for details).  I’d love to be invited to your group in the future. Ring me at 860.402.9551.
  3. Two More Books – I’ve long wanted to offer resources for younger women, encouraging a life of serenity and strength through healthy spiritual habits. So, I’m extremely excited to announce that I’ve just signed contracts with the good folks at New Hope Publishers to release my new devotional in 2019 and my new discipling journal in 2020. Grateful to work with editor extraordinaire Ramona Richards again. And I so appreciate your prayers for the writing process..
  4. Smell of New Pencils – Yes, I return to Wethersfield High School for my 10thyear as a substitute teacher covering all subjects. It’s a perfect opportunity to (hopefully) encourage teens, learn the latest lingo, serve my community and enjoy a job that leaves all the work at the office! Who in your circle is going “back to school?”
  5. Fresh Start – Fall is like our second New Year. Time to start filling in a brand-new planner (this year I’m using Emily Ley’s Simplicity Academic Year Planner) with goals and stickers. A time to join that new Bible Study or Book Study group. A time to focus on healthy eating, not just for you, but even for the kids’ lunchboxes. A time to get back to fellowship in your church, or even start looking for a faith community. What will you begin this September?

My Favorites of Summer 2018!

Movie –  “The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society” (Netflix)
TV Series  “Endeavor” on PBS Masterpiece Theatre
Non-Fiction Book  “Everybody Always” Bob Goff
Non-Fiction Spirituality Book – “Survival Guide for the Soul” Ken Shigematsu
Fiction Book – “Send Down the Rain” Charles Martin
Biblical Fiction Book – “Thief of Corinth” Tessa Afshar
Off-Broadway Show – “The Marvelous Wonderettes” at Kirk Theatre 42nd St.NYC  featuring Maggie McDowell  as nerdy Missy – comedy and music from the 50’s and 60’s, tickets on sale through November.
Summer Dress – Kohl’s Smocked Tank Dress in Navy Multi Paisley
Jean Jacket  Chico’s Floral Applique Denim Jacket (sale coupon)
Everyday Jean Leggings  – Time and Tru from Walmart!
Shoes –  Rothy Flats (from recycled water bottles, ask me for a $20 off coupon)
Best Date  Mike McDowell took me overnight to NYC to see daughter Maggie’ McDowell’s amazing Cabaret Show “Morning Person” at GreenRoom42.
Trip – London to watch precious grands for their parents’ 5-year anniversary trip.
Food –  Fresh melon balls with cottage cheese for breakfast!
Concert –  National Memorial Day Concert on PBS
Speaking Event –  I loved teaching daily at Camp of the Woods in the Adirondacks.

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In my late twenties, when was still not married, I decided God needed some specific help! While many of my professional, educational and ministry dreams were being fulfilled, the lifelong hope of being a wife and mother was still incubating…

With no prospects in sight, I went on a day-long prayer retreat and made My List. I decided to write down exactly who I was praying for in a husband. When the day was over I had a list of 24 attributes which I promptly typed and put in my planner.

Then I began praying diligently for each and every one to be fulfilled…. always ending my prayers in the prayer He taught us – “Thy will be done.”

When you read my list you might think of me as bold, longwinded, too picky or ‘shooting for the moon’ but guess what? I was/am all those things! You see, I believe in praying specifically yet always leaving it to God to winnow out and whittle down as He sees fit. Why should I pray a small prayer for something as important as a husband?

I’m still praying Big Prayers!

     “God is for you. If you don’t believe that, then you’ll pray small timid prayers; if you do believe it, then you’ll pray big audacious prayers. And one way or another, your small timid prayers or big audacious prayers will change the trajectory of your life and turn you into two totally different people. Who you become is determined by how you pray. Ultimately, the transcript of your prayer life becomes the script of your life.” (Mark Batterson, “The Circle Maker”)

My List

Lucinda Lee Secrest   – August 1981

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May the JOY and HOPE of Jesus Fill You This Fall!

under the mercy, Lucinda

“Helping You Choose a Life of Serenity and Strength”

©2018 Lucinda Secrest McDowell        http://www.EncouragingWords.net 

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The Day I Chose to Smile

The Day I Chose to Smile

Lucinda Secrest McDowell

It was only half a tooth. But it was half of my front tooth, and it had broken off completely.

When I looked in the mirror, a shocked and snaggle-toothed woman stared back at me. I numbly finished combing my hair and walked downstairs to where my weekend hostess had breakfast waiting. In the quiet of her beautiful, Victorian, seaside home, I burst into tears.

My looming fear was that my tooth could never be fixed or that we couldn’t afford to replace it and I’d always look that way. Then a secondary dread emerged: I had to speak to hundreds of women for an entire day, AND a videographer had already been procured to capture my lectures on film!

I had become Exhibit A of brokenness on display for all the world to see.

It’s in moments like that when all the insecurity and vulnerability of even the most seasoned, professional speaker can kick in. First, I deliberated on opening with an elaborate funny story of “what happened on my way to the women’s conference.” Then, I considered using it as an illustration for my third presentation, entitled — are you ready? — “Brokenness.”

But I wasn’t feeling especially jovial, and I realized immediately that a broken front tooth was hardly a blip for so many people who were truly suffering and broken. So, I finally chose the third path…

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under the mercy, Lucinda

“Helping You Choose a Life of Serenity and Strength”

©2018 Lucinda Secrest McDowell        http://www.EncouragingWords.net 

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What I Learned After I Knew It All

What I Learned After I Knew It All

Lucinda Secrest McDowell

I was once young and full of it. Ideas. Opinions. Advice. Me. Truth-as-I-saw-it. Then… Life. I grew up and learned how much I really didn’t know.

So I began a new quest. For Vision. Purpose. Compassion. Truth. Hope. Grace. My Story….  Wisdom.

Today I’d love to share with you What I Learned After I Knew It All…

  1. I am deeply loved. You are too.

This is where I hang my ultimate identity – I am “God’s Beloved”. If that sounds a bit presumptuous, so be it. In the Bible God says “I have loved with you with an everlasting love; I have gathered you with lovingkindness.” (Jeremiah 31.3) That’s good enough for me. So, you can take any titles or status or other identity-marker away and this is what I’ll be – simply and purely God’s Beloved.

  1. There is evil in the world.

Do not be naïve – there is (and has always been) an ‘enemy of your soul’ who will do anything to destroy your life and keep you from being the person God created you to be. His wiles are many – but they usually start with whispers, doubts, distractions and making us believe lies… When people give in to this enemy, they do horrific things which destroy their lives and others lives. We are at war in the spiritual realm but we know Who has the power to win the final battle. Stay strong!

  1. The only way to grow in faith is to spend time with God.

A lot of people want to be spiritual. But the truth is, most people don’t want it enough to do what it takes to be godly, wise, and yes, holy. We cannot know God and live the life He calls us to by simply having a weekly spiritual rhythm (church, a Bible Study). We must spend time with Him in prayer, meditation/study of His Word, and worship through a daily spiritual rhythm. This is not ‘new news’, it is the ancient practice of spiritual disciplines. And there truly is no other way. Trust me.

  1. Being grateful is much better than whining and complaining.

I had a bumper sticker on my old suburban which says “Have You Thanked God Today?” Well, have you? Have I? Stop complaining and whining and dwelling on all the negative stuff. Instead, try to identify at least one thing you can Thank God for every single day. If you write it in a small little datebook, you will have a long list of blessings to ponder and remember. By the way, this will change you/me.

  1. God loves my children even more than I love them.

I spend a lot of time and thought and prayer over my (now) six young adult children. They are not living in my nest because they are all out discovering how to live their unique lives and fulfill their callings. They are scattered far and wide and are each great adventurers. Sometimes I ache and cry and want to ‘fix’ life for them, but I can’t. Sometimes I worry and want to protect them but I must continually remind myself that even though I love them enough to be willing to die for them, God loves them (and my three grands) even more than me and He is a perfect parent. And through His own Son, he did that very thing.

  1. We are not alone.

It’s so hard to feel all alone in a crowd. And it’s also hard to feel alone whilst alone. No one understands. No one knows. No one can help carry this particular ‘load.’ But the truth, as Christ told us upon leaving earth, is “And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” (Matthew 28.20) We are not alone after all. He is only a prayer away. It often helps for me to envision Him sitting in the passenger seat of my car, on the empty chair across from my sofa. I find His “presence” my greatest present most days…

  1. Prayer is powerful.

True prayer is made up of a whole lot more than a list of things to ask God for…   I try to use the acronym TRIP to remind me to include

  • Thanks (praise),
  • Repentance (confession &asking forgiveness)
  • Intercession (praying for others) and
  • Petition (praying for me).

The most important thing about prayer is to DO IT. But I find that making lists and consulting the Psalms (God’s prayerbook) as well as ancient prayers help me focus each morning and beyond. I have discovered there is nothing that can refresh, revive and support me daily as does praying both in the morning and evening. 

  1. We are guided through both opened and closed doors.

I love open doors and fresh beginnings and when someone says “Yes” to a request. A new book contract, an invitation to speak, a job offer, a budding relationship… But the truth is, in my own life God has also used closed doors (sometimes slammed in my face) to guide me to where He wants me. And I have almost always come to be grateful for that ‘severe mercy’ of deliverance. remember this and hope it takes the sting out of disappointment. He is sovereign. He is in control.

  1. In every season of life, we have something important to offer.

This year was a Big Birthday for me! Certainly beats the alternative… But it also means that with the years I want to also have the wisdom and passion to make each moment count and to do the important things, not just the same-old thing. I don’t always know what I have left to give, but I’m determined to wake up each day and take feeble steps forward as a Kingdom Builder  — with encouraging words on my lips and a thankfulness in my heart for the privilege to grow older with grace.

  1. The only proper response to God’s gift of grace is to receive it and pass it along to others.

When I finally discovered that I didn’t have to strive to earn God’s love, but could rest in His grace because I was the recipient of that amazing gift I did not deserve, it literally changed my life. My only response was to seek to be a grace-giver to others. But that meant letting go of ‘shoulda-coulda-woulda’ living and judgmental attitudes. I haven’t always done this perfectly, but I join our literary friend Jean Valjean (he of Victor Hugo’s “Les Miserables”) in knowing that when we have received much, we give much — “to love another person is to see the face of God” (final sung moments in the musical). I know this is true. For a while I lived the other way. Today I choose to live in grace.

What are you learning along life’s journey today?             

under the mercy, Lucinda

“Helping You Choose a Life of Serenity and Strength”

©2018 Lucinda Secrest McDowell        http://www.EncouragingWords.net 

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Because Today We Need to Trust

Because Today We Need to Trust

Lucinda Secrest McDowell

I looked up at Daddy with wide-eyed, ten-year-old amazement, “I can’t believe you burned down ‘Brookside.’”

The fire had left its devastation — everything around us was black and charred. There were no tall grasses left, no bushes, no wildflowers. ‘Brookside’ was our family’s small farm just outside town, a place where we fished, hunted, played, rode horses, and spent campouts at the cabin dubbed by my parents as “The Last Resort.”

“Oh, Cindygirl, I didn’t burn down ‘Brookside’,” Daddy replied with a grin. “This is what is called ‘controlled burning’ – setting carefully guarded fires to clean out the underbrush and make way for new spring growth. Remember, I’m a forester. This is what we do every year.”

I wanted to trust Daddy, to believe that what he said was indeed the truth.

But the blackened ground didn’t look like it would ever see green again. It seemed more reasonable to trust what my eyes saw instead of what my ears heard. Tentatively I sought to grasp what he had said. “So, it only looks like you destroyed ‘Brookside,’ but what you were really doing is preparing it for growing?”

“Exactly, “Daddy explained. “Those weeds and tall grasses would have choked back the new plants and flowers coming this spring. So we clear that away, and before you know it, this whole area will once again be covered in beautiful green.”

For another moment I experienced an internal battle between what the person I trusted was saying and what I was actually seeing.

I knew that my daddy loved this farm – that he enjoyed walking through the trails and boating on the two ponds and driving the jeep from the brooks that bordered each side of the vast acreage. I also knew that he always replenished the lands that provided wood for his pulpwood business.

Most of all, I knew that he was a person I could believe with all my heart. I chose to trust him because I knew him so well.

And my trust was rewarded with visible evidence — by the very next weekend there were tiny shoots of green peeking up all over the farm!

The psalmist encourages us to Trust in God at all times, O people; pour out your hearts to Him, for God is our refuge.”      Psalm 62.8

When we are young children, our parents should embody the same kind of safety, refuge and trustworthiness as our heavenly Father. In my life, I was privileged to make an easy transition from trusting a trustworthy father to trusting my heavenly Father. But sadly, we know that is not always the case.

How can we live out the word ‘trust’ when others have betrayed our trust so many times that we have become wary?

 In this verse, the word trust is translated from the Hebrew word chacah, a verb which means to seek refuge or put trust in God. Its noun form, machacah, is actually interchangeable with our English word ‘refuge.’ So when we speak of trust, we are also speaking of a safe place to dwell – actually living in a refuge of trust.

As my childhood story suggests, one of the stumbling blocks in trusting is that trust involves saying no to our natural tendencies and yes to what sometimes appears impossible. That’s where faith comes in.

My father was a worthy object of my trust and so I chose to believe what he said instead of what I mistakenly deduced from my surroundings. I could wholeheartedly put my trust in him because I knew his heart.

What do you see when you look at your life today? Is there devastation? Have dreams been shattered? Are resources depleted? It’s pretty easy to trust that what you see must be the final reality.

But you might be wrong.

The burnt-out brush of your life right now might very well be a carefully ‘controlled burning’ orchestrated by your heavenly Father to provide ideal conditions for new growth. Maybe something in your life has to go so that God can replace it with something even better.

Will you trust Him to do that in His way and His time?

under the mercy, Lucinda

“Helping You Choose a Life of Serenity and Strength”

©2018 Lucinda Secrest McDowell        http://www.EncouragingWords.net 

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I Did A Drastic Thing Today!

I Did A Drastic Thing Today!

Lucinda Secrest McDowell

Look what I found in the Bible!

“Hair that is turning white is like a crown of honor. It is found in the way of being right with God.” Proverbs 16.31 NLV

You mean all that natural white hair I’ve been hiding for ummm… a few years… is actually a Crown of Honor? Found on those who are Right with God?

Who knew?

I decided to reconsider some of my choices. Like maybe to give in to my genes and begin sporting the white that is my heritage.

I thought I had a good reason for staying blonde. Because I don’t feel old I didn’t want to look old. But then I realized that God, the Artist, designed my youthful attitude and my lighter hair to perfectly complement each other in this season of life.

Drastic Thing Today? Embracing life in my natural hair color – sorta beigy/white.

See these three beautiful ladies here? That’s Mama (91) with her younger sisters Aunt Carol (80) and Aunt Rebecca (77). In the Hasty/Chastain branch of our family, many of the women’s hair naturally turns white in their thirties, others reach that gorgeous color later in life. I think they look wonderful, but mostly they ARE WONDERFUL women!

A few other wonderful women gave me great thoughts on silvery living.

My dear friend Liz Curtis Higgs proudly began showing her silver when she was fifty! “One mature woman clucked her tongue at me and said, ‘Honey, you are aging yourself ten years with that hair.’ (It was really hard not to snap back, ‘And you, honey, are fooling no one with your color not found in nature!’ But I didn’t. Honest.)” Liz has discovered that many women under thirty appreciate her silver crown, “Wild, right? Could be they’re happy to see an older woman take what God has given her and run with it. Why not?”

Fellow author friend Kendra Smiley’s white locks were definitely in the minority at a recent high school reunion where age is no secret, but she prides herself on being a “natural woman!” Can’t you just hear Carole King belting out that song right now?

Why not?

So I’m now on my way… Just one more step on this year’s journey of

  • Simplifying my Life,
  • Focusing on the Essentials, and
  • Learning how to Live Steadfast & Soul Strong.

under the mercy, Lucinda

“Helping You Choose a Life of Serenity and Strength”

©2018 Lucinda Secrest McDowell        http://www.EncouragingWords.net 

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Are You Really Wearing That?

Are You Really Wearing That?

 Lucinda Secrest McDowell

We get dressed every day. Occasionally, several times a day.

Depending on our personality and the occasion, we sometimes give a lot of thought and attention to what we wear. It took me months to find an appropriate mother-of-the-bride gown. Twice.

Other times, we throw something on without thinking. Just grab the nearest sweater and comfy jeans and we’re good to go.

Most of us wouldn’t dream of walking around naked…

Perhaps that’s why Paul knew he would have our attention by using this imagery – to clothe ourselves. “Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” (Colossians 3.12)

Except he doesn’t complete the sentence with the expected ‘fashion tips’ like cloak, sandals, or robe. He throws in a twist.

He tells us to get dressed up in kindness. To button up gentleness and step into patience.

Well, what in the world does that look like?

Earlier in this letter to the believers living in Colossae, Paul has reminded them that they are new creatures in Christ. Referring to the ways they used to walk, he suggests they get rid of (“take off”) a long list of unholy practices, and then “put on the new self.” (Colossians 3.7-10)

Before the ‘new clothing’ is listed, Paul reiterates the most important truth of all – that they are “chosen, holy, and dearly loved” by God (v.12). Embracing these facts is key, because our identity always precedes our actions and attitudes. We are new creatures through our faith in Christ, by no merit of our own, who have a significant role to play.

We must decide put on Christ each day, just as we put on clothing.

When we freely choose to dress in spiritual clothes every day, the Holy Spirit produces change—change in our personalities, our priorities, and our prayer. What is alive in our hearts shines out from us.

The five ‘garments’ mentioned in today’s verse are what I would call somewhat muted clothing. They don’t make a huge splash, like bright jewel colors and bling, but are instead lovely and quite powerful in their subtle beauty:

  • Compassion (Greek word oiktirmos: meaning mercy, feeling sympathy for others’ misfortunes) – as we wear compassion we will be better able to come alongside those who are in pain and trouble.
  • Kindness (Greek word chrestotes: meaning to extend goodwill, kindness and helpfulness) – those who wear kindness are quick to offer help and a good word to anyone.
  • Humility (Greek word tapeinophrosyne: a lowliness of mind and attitude, modesty) – when we wear humility, we are content to work in the background, not calling attention to ourselves.
  • Gentleness (Greek word proutes: describing meekness, obedient submissiveness to God) – clothed in gentleness, we are more apt to speak quietly, move slowly, and carry out God’s ways in a loving manner.
  • Patience (Greek word makrothumia: which means long-suffering, handling injustice or difficulty well) – those who wear patience will always be welcome as a tribute to fortitude and serenity in the midst of the unknown.

Are you clothed in these today?

My best ‘fashion tip’ is to remember that you are holy, chosen and deeply loved. You have taken off the grave clothes and are now putting on grace clothes.

All dressed up with somewhere to go — out into the world!

under the mercy, Lucinda

“O Christ, clothe me with Yourself. Be for me a warm garment that will protect me from catching the cold of this world. If you are away from me, dear Lord, all things will be cold and lifeless. But if You are with me, all things will be warm, lively and fresh. As I cover my body with this article of clothing, please become the clothing of my soul. Put upon me mercy, meekness, love, and peace. Amen.”     John Bradford (1510-1555)

dressedbradford“WOLF HALL” Factoid: The above prayer was written by a godly man who lived during the time of Henry VIII and his many wives. In fact, Henry’s daughter, Queen Mary, burned John Bradford at the stake simply because he was a Protestant and she was a Catholic. Known as “Bloody Mary” this daughter of Henry and Catherine of Aragon had 280 Christians burned at the stake during her reign. Still angry about the whole Church-of-England-and-get-rid-of-Queen-Catherine thing I guess. So many repercussions of sin…

“Helping You Choose a Life of Serenity and Strength”

©2018 Lucinda Secrest McDowell        http://www.EncouragingWords.net

adapted from “Live These Words” by Lucinda Secrest McDowell ©2014 

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Did You Know that “It’s a Great Day to be Alive?”

Did You Know that “It’s a Great Day to be Alive?”!

 Lucinda Secrest McDowell

This post was originally written August 6, 2010 – and exactly one year later – August 6, 2011 – my sweet Daddy went Home. This year I will be in Georgia with Mama on the 7th anniversary of his homegoing, so I thought I would re-post some of his poetry in fond remembrance of him. Enjoy!

What’s left when you begin to lose your sight, your memory, your health? What remains? I believe it is one’s ESSENCE. The True You – the Core of God’s Unique Creation that is YOU!

My Daddy, who is 86 and suffering from macular degeneration, dementia and frail health, has always been a man who chooses to look on the bright side and be an encourager to all around him, a man who communicated eloquently and often through both the written and spoken word, a man of faith, adventure, gratitude and generosity —an amazing musician, humorist and storyteller.  Today, even with his limitations, he is still the Same Man. While spending a week with him in assisted living in my hometown of Thomasville, Georgia, he must have told me he loved me more than a dozen times each day, just as he has done every day of my life.

Is it any wonder that my own ‘language of love’ is encouraging words?

Is it any wonder that God has also chosen to use my own writing and speaking to share hope and grace with others?  I am truly my father’s daughter….

And this week I have the privilege of offering back to him a few encouraging words and acts of service and love…

Perspective is a precious gift. How can one complain about anything after worshiping in the living room of an assisted living facility with 80 and 90-year-olds singing the old hymns like “When we all get to heaven, what a day of rejoicing that will be! When we all see Jesus, we’ll sing and shout the victory!” or even “Great is Thy Faithfulness” while looking back at milestones of challenge and courage in life?

Or what about yesterday’s morning break when the fiddler of a visiting bluegrass band strolled over to Daddy in his walker and began to recount to him a time many years ago when Daddy wrote a letter to the newspaper editor extolling the fine work of this man in the GA Forestry Service. This fiddler said, “Mr. Secrest, I will never forget you as long as I live…” I must admit my eyes were leaking as he walked away…

One important thing Daddy taught me was that life is a Celebration. His favorite motto still is “It’s a Great Day to be alive! And don’t you forget it!

During my entire life he wrote poems to commemorate anything and everything — no need for a special occasion, just being alive that day was cause enough. When he turned 75 I compiled a few of them into a book “For Better…Or Verse” by Pratt Secrest. As I sit by his bed and read them aloud he comments on how great they are and I remind him of the author…. Indulge me a bit on a few favorites which may help you know him better.

Only 19 and already a pilot in World War II….

Walk With God  (1943)

My walk with God is not a task, made hard by common strife,

It’s not a labor, nor a bond inhibiting my life.

For when I walk at peace with God, to Him my soul I give,

And then I promise, heart and hand, for Him my life to live.

The year he met my mama – they’ve been married 61 years now…

To Sarah (1949)

If I had a trillion I would buy you all of France!

And I’d give you a million if I only had the chance!

Had I a thousand bucks I’d buy a set of diamond rings.

And even with a hundred I could buy you lots of things!

If I had just a dollar I could get you something green…

And I’d only need two bits t buy a brand new magazine!

And here’s one thing for sure, my dear, I really love you true!

If I only had a nickel I would spend it all on you!

Countless Letters to me through the years, this one to faraway Camp Keystone… 

To Cindy at Summer Camp (1964)

Gosh, but we miss you around this place!

(Oh please don’t forget about washing your face!)

On the door of your room we have hung up a wreath

(And always remember you must brush your teeth!)

We haven’t seen Velvet or gone to the stable,

(Do use your best manners when you’re at the table)

Rusty and Frisky are barking at cars,

(Have you slept on the ground yet, out under the stars?)

Susan is playing with friends in the yard,

(Is your cabin ok? Is your bunk soft or hard?)

Cathy is busy typing at school,

(Be sure to obey every single camp rule)

Mother is sewing and raising tomatoes,

(Each day do they feed you three kinds of potatoes?)

I’m hammy as ever with your sisters and Ma

(Do your friends know you’re just as much ham as your Pa?)

We’re lonesome for you and your grin and your curls!

(Be friendly and nice to each one of the girls!)

Well, have a good time and don’t let the bugs bite!

(And Cindy, Oh Cindy, remember to WRITE!) 

Continued Faith Journey…

I’m Gonna Try (1975)

I’m gonna try to be a better man today.

Gonna watch what I do; watch what I say

Not too quick to make a sarcastic remark

(That’s as dumb as taking a shot in the dark!)

I’ll compliment people for jobs well done.

I’ll sympathize, too, for races not won.

I’ll find someone to tell how Jesus changed me.

How He offers us all a new life for free!

I’ll try to get organized (one of these days!)

And make my desktop less of a maze!

With my family I’ll try to be more loving, too.

More helpful to Sarah in all that I do.

So here I go, Lord, help me do what I say!

The sun’s coming up now! Here comes the new day!

Still choosing God’s Way (last poem I found for Daddy’s Book on his 75th) 

Resolution  (1998)

The world is full of music – some good and some bad!

Some cheerful and happy, and some dreadfully sad!

Some climbing mountains, some skiing slopes,

Some raising our spirits, some drowning our hopes.

The music is ours to hear as we choose –

The magic of laughter or the sadness of blues!

Ah, the world has enough of that negative tone!

Too many who live with a sigh or a grown.

So let’s raise our voices and sing to the Sun:

“I’ll make someone happy before this day is done!”

–       All poems by Pratt Secrest 

  I’ll be honest. It’s hard to see loved ones grow older and diminished… It’s hard to not be able to offer much to them, especially if you live far away… But it’s also Good to remember:

  • Life is a Gift, so treasure each day.
  • Now is the time to tell someone you love them.
  • We are never alone – God promises to be with us.
  • Give, laugh, sing, and celebrate every single day

because, as Daddy says, “It’s a Great Day to be Alive!”

Sarah, Pratt and Cindy, August 2010

under the mercy, Lucinda

“Helping You Choose a Life of Serenity and Strength”

©2018/2010 Lucinda Secrest McDowell        http://www.EncouragingWords.net 

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